If you don’t like your life, change it.
Look beautiful, I know that sounds a bit hard-edged, maybe a little bit straight down the line. But the truth is, you are the person in total control of your life. Every decision, every choice, every intention has led you right to this very point in your life.
And you have the power to change everything about it too. Truly.
But the key to getting your glow on and living your happiest life is not making the changes you think you have to.
It’s making the changes that truly align you with you. Big or small, these are the things that light you up, the everyday bliss moments, the simple joys, the big life adjustments.
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And the one thing you have to realise is that changing your life is easy when you know how.
These are my three simple rules:
Rule 1: No one else but you can make you happy.
No one else is going to understand what lights you up but you. And that’s part of your purpose. To truly know yourself and to truly make your outer life an expression of your deepest truth.
It’s not anyone else’s job to make you happy. It’s not your job to place your happiness in the hands of anyone else either. And it’s certainly not your role to be responsible for anyone’s happiness but your own. Yet these are all happiness traps that we fall into.
No one will ever know the true light in your soul like you do. So honour it now and just live your happiest life.
And the lesson you most need to learn in all of this is:
Rule 2: Nobody defines your worth but you.
We can spend our whole lives trying to please other people. In fact we’re pretty conditioned from a young age that we have to get it ‘right’. Our homework. Our chores. The pop quiz. Our fashion and music choices. Our words. Our thoughts. Our beliefs.
And so we end up living our life, heck – basing our happiness choices – on what we think our parents, siblings, lovers, and friends want.
Let me shout something from the rooftops, sweet pea:
Rule 3: You. Don’t. Need. Anyone’s. Approval.
Most certainly not to be beautiful you. And definitely not to live your happy.
So free yourself of that burden right now.
And then decide that you’re ready for all the positive, happiness-laden change you can handle. Decide that you’re going to take control of your experience in every moment, stop struggling for the ‘perfect’ vision of happiness, and just surrender to your own flowing, glowing kind.
Here’s to making your own rules + living your happy!
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I love the 3 rules for changing our life right now 🙂
I totally agree with all you are saying, on a logical level I know I CAN create what I want…here is the thing HOW do we get into alignment with our desires(remove the blocks)
I write goals and I get excited etc and then I don’t manifest/create etc etc I come to see you to balance me so I can have what I want. Oh baby am I dreamer! I want to be a DO-er (there must be more people like me)
Could you create a guide/course/how to/thingee to remove blocks/change energy before we start on our path to get the blocks out of the way 1st so we are in alignment with our desires.
Let me give you an example I want to own a red alfa romeo 156 gta, I can feel it taste it etc but in my wonderful subconscious there is that “you are not good enough belief”
Imagine if I could find those blocks at the start of the process and get into alignment, easy, Magic!
Just an idea!
So many times I have wished for something like this.